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The Truth About Spiritual Coaches and Mentors: Raising the Standard in the Psychic and Mediumship Industry

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The psychic and mediumship teaching industry is booming, attracting countless individuals eager to unlock their intuitive gifts. While this growth has brought incredible opportunities, it’s also given rise to a troubling reality: not all coaches, mentors, or spiritual teachers are qualified to teach.


Picking the wrong coach can have devastating consequences. I’ve witnessed students walk away from spiritual work entirely after being harmed by ego-driven or untrained mentors. You might be taught unethical methods that lead to causing harm to others. Some mentors instill subliminal fears or manipulate students into believing falsehoods—claims like a fabricated trauma, the need to cut ties with loved ones to “raise their vibration,” or the requirement to change diets and lifestyles to become the best reader possible.


The fallout from these experiences can be profound. Students lose trust in their intuition, become disillusioned with their spiritual path, or carry emotional and mental scars long after the experience. Your spiritual journey is sacred, and it deserves to be nurtured by someone with integrity, expertise, and genuine care.


This is why you must never take a coach’s or guru’s word at face value. Trust your intuition—even if it’s just a quiet whisper—and always question what you’re being told.


The Problem with the Psychic and Mediumship Industry

Let’s address a hard truth: many so-called coaches and mentors in this industry enter the field with limited experience, motivated not by a passion for service but by the perception that teaching is easier than giving readings. They often rely on flashy, emotionally charged marketing tactics designed to trigger pain points and position themselves as saviors with all the answers.


This is where the danger lies. Students who are eager to learn and vulnerable in their spiritual journeys are often drawn to these promises of quick success and transformation. But behind the polished marketing lies a lack of depth, maturity, and true expertise.


I’ve seen mentors offering services before even completing their own qualifications. Others jump into teaching after only a year or two of reading experience—barely enough time to grasp their own gifts, let alone guide others. The truth is, teaching psychic and mediumship skills is not about quick solutions; it’s about wisdom earned through years of experience, practice and deep soul evolution.


As one of my mentors, Tony Stockwell, wisely said, “In this industry, we hit our peak in our late 60s because we’ve had enough time to mature, experience, learn, and get over our ego.” Teaching requires not just knowledge but maturity, perspective, and a willingness to place the student’s growth above all else.


Protect yourself and your journey.
Protect yourself and your journey.

How to Choose the Right Coach or Mentor

Your spiritual growth is too important to place in the hands of someone unqualified or unethical. To protect yourself and your journey, take the time to vet any coach, mentor, or school you’re considering.


Here’s what to look for:

  1. Experience and Credibility:

    • A reputable coach should have at least 3–5 years of professional practical one-to-one reading experience and a similar amount of teaching or mentoring experience.

    • Ask how many readings they’ve completed and the number of hours teaching. Numbers matter when building expertise.

  2. Verified Credentials:

    • Ask for proof of their certifications. Don’t just take their word for it. If they claim to be accredited by an organization, research the validity of the claim and organization. Many industry “approvals” mean nothing—they often require little to no vetting beyond a membership fee.

  3. Teaching Expertise:

    • Great psychics and mediums aren’t automatically great teachers. Ask about their teaching or coaching qualifications. With technology you can't take things on face-vale you will need to reference check these credentials

    • Do they understand how to manage diverse learning styles, support neurodivergent students, and create an inclusive learning environment?

  4. Transparency and Integrity:

    1. Be wary of anyone who:

      • Refuses to show credentials or places conditions on sharing them.

      • Focuses on your income or pressures you during “discovery calls.”

      • Makes outrageous claims about revolutionary methods without proof or case studies.

  5. Proven Results:

    • Look for genuine testimonials and case studies from past students. A good coach will have a track record of helping others grow. Reference check your coach or mentor.

  6. Ethical Boundaries:

    • Avoid mentors who use techniques like hypnosis, trauma work, or nervous system regulation without proper psychological or therapeutic qualifications and extensive experience. Misuse of these methods can cause long-term harm.


The Hidden Risks of Unqualified Coaches

Unfortunately, this industry is filled with charlatans who position themselves as all-knowing gurus. These individuals often manipulate the vulnerable, use cult-like tactics, and prioritize profit over the well-being of their students. A great mentor won’t claim to have all the answers—they’ll empower you to find your own.


If something feels off or too good to be true, listen to your intuition.


Red flags include:

  • Claims that you need to change your life, relationships, or habits to succeed.

  • High-pressure sales tactics or secrecy around methods and credentials.

  • Asking about your income level.

  • Someone recommending hypnoses either to use on your or a client.

  • Unqualified and non-medical professionals making recommendations about your nervous system.

  • An emphasis on their importance and methods rather than your growth.



Raising the Standards

The psychic and mediumship teaching industry is largely unregulated, making it a breeding ground for opportunists. But it doesn’t have to stay that way. By demanding better—by asking tough questions, verifying credentials, and holding educators accountable—we can elevate the standard of this field.


As Tony Stockwell wisely pointed out, true mastery comes with time and experience. Your spiritual journey is not a race, and your growth deserves to be nurtured by someone who genuinely cares and is qualified to guide you.


So, ask the questions. Trust your intuition. And remember: your journey is sacred. Don’t settle for less than the best guidance. Let’s work together to raise the bar and make this industry a space where integrity, expertise, and genuine service come first.


Protect your journey. Choose wisely.


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